Help my sister is dating a loser
There are way too many people who hate their jobs and keep on doing them, just like there are way too many women who settle for men who treat them poorly.What is it about non-ideal situations which makes us keep carrying on, doing nothing to change?We get along like a house on fire and then with no warning, it disintegrates. I’ve given up trying to figure out who is at fault, what I could do differently, how I can steer it better, how I can avoid it ever happening again.I’ve tried and tried and tried but I just can’t do it anymore. In her eyes she is perfect and I am something she needs to fix. She is the only person in my life who looks at me like this. It is an uncomfortable reflection that I no longer want to see.In retrospect, every woman who has gone out with a deadbeat loser realizes the case. You deserve to have someone love you back as much as you love them. I’d rather be a median waged person with a loved one than be a lonely billionaire in the long run.It’s irrational to think that you will die alone given the population of the world today. If there are five “must haves” such as humor, compassion, motivation, spontaneous, cultured and he has three out of five, the temptation is to settle.It might take one week, or it might take many months, but until a consummation is made, guys can be very charming!By the time a woman hooks up with the guy, only afterward will she see his true colors.
I think at this point she suspected she may have gone too far because she refused to answer. I don’t trust myself to do it to her face because she has a way of making me feel like I am the one who was at fault, who is insane, who is misunderstanding her. It’s the kind of text we won’t ever come back from. A late friend of mine, on his final days, urged me to do everything I could to maintain my relationship with her.I can’t let her throw grenades into it anymore, all the work I do, all the progress I make, is undone by her in an instant, leaving me reeling and wondering what the fuck just happened.Now, for the first time, I can say that I will never let that happen again because I have decided it will never happen again.Her “” moment comes at a time after she’s given everything to him.
As we are generally all optimists, a woman believes she can salvage the relationship and change him for the better.
Have you ever had serious problems with a family member and made the difficult decision to remove them from your life?