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“You do not meet a Russian man, you are chosen by one,” proclaims Bruk.I have been trying to bring this idea home for years, but she expressed it so much better.“Russian men are patriarchal alpha males,” insists she, declaring openly that at first it is a huge turn-on.The social responsibility of males to provide for their females is not only materialistic in the former Soviet Union, states she, but more alike paternal duty, where a woman is looked after by someone responsible for her, because it’s his moral obligation and delight.The downside of the powerful male taking what he wants?Bruk admits that Russian men still follow the egotistical mentality that “sex is a favor that women do for men”, which means that if a girl enjoys sex, she is looked at as a nymphomaniac.
) Diana Bruk is a young American woman who was born in Russia and moved to the Big Apple at the age of 5 with her family.Post-USSR women are brought up to be passive, display themselves, and let men approach, otherwise you are not “modest”, which is what all guys want in their girlfriends (according to the local beliefs).In Diana’s words, if a Russian guy likes you, nothing can stop him.Russian men expect oral sex but will not return the favor, the New York author corroborates.
Diana believes that Russian men have an “inherent sense of commitment”, which means, having sex and just be friends is not something an indigenous alpha-male would approve upon.You would think it is stalking, they think it’s being persistent.“Russian men act like your boyfriend from the very beginning,” she writes.In Russia, it is expected from a male to physically defend his lady, or be considered a coward. ), the boyfriend approached his shaking American dame demanding explanations as to what she did that a strange guy felt comfortable enough to grab her, and why did she talk to another chap without his outright permission.