Desperate women dating
Dating a needy woman can be very frustrating for men, and the moment they see your first sign of neediness, they´re quick to pull away. Even if your boyfriend is just checking out the Porsche across the street, you freak out, accusing him of ogling other girls. A girlfriend once told me, in a very exhausted emotional manner, that there were plenty of men who pursued her, but they all were quick to disappear. In a nutshell, a needy woman is someone who will do everything and anything to please a man, and because she gives everything, she requires the man to reciprocate it. But the moment you require them to give back as much as you give, or the moment you complain that you give more than he does, they´ll see you as needy. But if there´s no man around, you feel ugly or worthless. In fact, you often don’t even notice the poor treatment because acknowledging that you’re being treated badly is the first step down the road to walking away.
With a much higher supply of men and lower supply of women, supply-demand economics dictate that men would be more desperate in this situation.They believe there are few good candidates out there, and if they lose this person…they will be crushed! They ask a lot of prying questions, “What did you do last night? ” They stay as close as possible under the assumption that being nearby can prevent their prize from escaping. For the less subtle set there’s the direct question, “What do you think of my jeans? Clearly, it is possible to want too much from a date or a mate.Of course, nothing could be further from the truth. Downshifting from some overblown list of traits and accomplishments is a wise decision.It’s not uncommon for a 5-year-old to climb into the car for a long trip and ask the driver 15 minutes later, “Are we there yet? ” There are many grown men and women who act the same way with their romantic relationships. They are so desperate to feel good about themselves that they become masters of creating compliments out of thin air. These traits become the short list of what you MUST HAVE from a partner to be with them.